It’s pretty simple. Let me put it bluntly:
I can dress “sexy” and not have sex. I just don’t want to have sex until I meet someone who’s worth it. Trust me, I’ve had the urge to but I know it wouldn’t be worth it. I listen to Gucci Mane (who’s songs are primarily about doing/selling drugs) and don’t do or have ever done drugs.
I enjoy playing/dressing sexy. It’s fun! I’m a total dweeb so in a way it’s like playing dress up.